Cabanas a Tolavi

This past weekend, Josh took me to some cabins about half an hour from Cochabamba in celebration of Valentine's Day. The grounds are beautiful and it is a very quiet and relaxing place. We enjoyed the time alone (well, alone with Michaela) immensely. It was a much needed get-away from our homestay.

On the Move

Michaela’s favorite new past time is burning rubber with her walker. The Arcos have a beautiful shaded patio outside, and Michaela loves running around in her walker, chasing the dogs and cat. She is definitely on the move, as she can now pull up and cruise along furniture. We hope she’ll be crawling before too long!

“Parte de la Familia”

We had only been with them a day, and yet at the market the father of our home-stay family introduced me as his “hijo” (son). Within a day we had gone from complete strangers to a part of the family. This simple phrase completely describes our relationship. We have been adopted into a Bolivian family and have experienced love, service, concern (and sometimes even invasion of privacy) just like any other member of the family.

In our family, the father does most of the cooking. Yes, this is abnormal for South America, but for Rolando, it is part of his nature. In his mind, meal time is for the whole family to be together, and it is his way to maintain connection with his loved ones. You could say “cooking for” is his love language and our family is loved every day with mostly agreeable meals. One special thing he does for me is to save a bowl of the noon-meal soup (which I’m unable to eat because I’m in class) for me to have with my dinner.

Our Bolivian mother helps Rolando in the kitchen, washes our clothes by hand, and somehow finds time to work in their leather shop as well. She has a sweet disposition and loves to engage in meaningful conversations. She and her daughter have especially fallen in love with Michaela. It is nice to have two who are so willing to take her at any moment: to sing to, dance with, or take outside.

We have been blessed to be welcomed into this family. Of course, we had our concerns at the beginning. Were we going to get along with them? Were they even trustworthy? Both of these anxieties have proved to be empty worries. Time after time they have tried to protect us “gringos” from getting taken advantage of. Just the other day, Eli returned 1000 Bs. to us (around $120) that I had hidden in a sock. Julie didn’t know about it and had thrown it in the wash. Though I was trying to be careful and avert temptation, our Bolivian mom assured us we have nothing to fear.

Lest I paint a picture too perfect, there have been definite challenges to our new family situation. The American side of us feels that we’ve been stripped of some of our personal independence and privacy. We might even go so far to say that these people are “overly enmeshed.” Julie and I have been given ample unsolicited parenting advice and financial suggestions (if they think we’ve spent to much on something). We have to lovingly bend with some things and set boundaries with others.

I don’t believe our experience is unique to just our family. As I’ve talked with the rest of the team, it basically typifies what all four of the families in home-stays have experienced. The very people, to whom we’ve come to give God’s love, have first shown us an incredible love and acceptance. We pray daily that our 24/7 witness and communication, though it often be in broken Spanish, will only further strengthen these bonds until they are founded in Christ.

Tarata

Last weekend, our host family dad took us on an outing to a little town called Tarata, about 45 minutes away from Cochabamba. It was our first taste of the countryside around Cochabamba, and a myriad of images struck me as we traveled in a crowded micro (little bus): tall, slender eucalyptus trees; usually arid rolling hills turned green by the rain; small adobe villages; Quechua women in their full pleated skirts, braided hair, and broad-brimmed straw hats; babies tied on their backs in brightly colored mantas. Tarata itself is a historic colonial town that received its name from the multitude of tara trees found there. The fruit of the tara tree is used to cure leather. Tarata is best known for being the home of mad president Melgarejo in the 1800’s. It also has an ancient neoclassical church, and a Franciscan convent. We walked the narrow cobbled streets, visited the churches, and ate fried chorizo (pork sausage) at a little café.

House Hunting

Lately, we have been in the throes of house hunting. This can be one of the most fun, and at the same time the most frustrating, experiences. I think that we have looked at close to 40 houses in the last 2 weeks, and have only found 3 that have been ones we have seriously considered. A pretty depressing percentage actually! But it’s fun finding the parts we like about each house. It’s getting the qualities all together that is sometimes a little difficult. Some of our wants include the following: in an area of town closer to our language school, a nice yard (i.e. larger than postcard size, hopefully with some nice vegetation), a hot water heater (none of these electric duchas – the typical way of heating water in Latin Amercia is to have water heated by running it through an electric heater, not the safest or most effective way to heat water in my opinion!), 4 rooms with closets (2 bedrooms, a guest room, and a study), a nice kitchen (i.c. clean and with cabinets), a living room and dining room that is big enough for small groups, a space for a washer/dryer, and hopefully a fireplace and a view (not to mention this house has to be within our budget). Needless to say, we’ve been hard customers to please. We’ve seen it all, from brand new with no yard, to a run down bizarrely painted house with a nicely shaded yard, and everything in between. We’ve been to about 5 different real estate agencies (one agency 6 times to see the same house, and we’ve never been able to see it), and been treated royally at some, and snubbed at others. We’ve driven all over the city in various taxis looking for these houses, scoured the paper every day to see if there are any new bargains out there, and prayed hard for wisdom. We even were shown one house by a real estate agent, and the renters returned while we were looking at the house and hadn’t even been informed that their house was up for rent! That was a pretty embarrassing situation. Regardless of all of the headache involved, our prayers have finally been answered. Praise God! We found a house that fits the bill! Below are some pictures of our new home, although we won’t be able to move in until the middle of March because of some painting and repair work that needs to be done.

The kitchen: The house was previously rented by American missionaries with the New Tribes missions. Because of that, it even has a built in spot for a microwave, a gas hook up for a dryer, and extra security.


Living room/dining room: The area is spacious enough for small groups, but not overwhelmingly big – and it has a fireplace!


Yard: The yard has several fruit trees including fig and lemon. It also has a great spot to put a swing. Not to mention a wonderful storage shed for Josh’s tools!


Patio and garage: The garage door has even been put on an electric remote, thanks to the previous renters as well.


A bedroom: The bedrooms all have wonderful built in closets. One of the things we like about this house is the amount of storage space.



A bathroom: Some of the houses we looked at didn’t have a bathtub, but this one does!


A view of the upper level overlooking the living room: This “balcony” gives the house a very open, spacious feel.


From the outside: Right outside our gate is a beautiful jacaranda tree. The wall is tall and reinforced with electric wiring. The house itself is situated in a very quiet neighborhood, with all types of housing. It is right near a university and directly across from a park containing a basketball court, a soccer field, and a playground. Our neighborhood is situated between 2 major streets which means that finding buses into the center of town will be very easy. In addition, several little tiendas (stores) are close by and we are only 6 blocks away from IC Norte, a nice supermarket.

I Lift Up my Eyes to the Hills

Every day on our walk to and from school, we are surrounded by the incredible beauty of the mountains. Lately, Psalm 121 has been on my heart. With all the many changes in our lives, it is comforting to remember our omniscient God. We may lift up our eyes to the hills to find a moments repose from the business of life, but our true help comes from our God. This eternal rest is what we hope to bring, with the Spirit’s help, to the people of Cochabamba. Rather than lifting their eyes to the hill with the statue of Christ, they will be able to seek their true salvation in the everlasting presence of our Lord.

Funny Language Blooopers Made by our Team

1. Someone was talking about their sandalias (sandals) that were too big, and said sandias (watermelons) instead.
2. Someone asked for viruela (measles) instead of a ciruela (plum).
3. Someone was looking for a little clay owl for a birthday gift, and when trying to locate it in the market, asked if anyone had a bird with big hijos (sons) rather than ojos (eyes).
4. When talking about a payment made every mes (month), someone kept saying mesa (table) instead.
5. We were working with direct objects in class and someone was trying to say “I taste it [the fruit]” (Lo pruebo), but instead managed to say “Me pruebo” (I taste myself.)
**I’m sure more bloopers will be forthcoming.

More Ways You Know You’re in Cochabamba

1. You pass an average of 20 stray dogs on your 20 minute walk to school.
2. You go in for a pedicure, and they use a cheese grater to remove dead skin from your feet.
3. Almost every local plate has some form of egg included on it.
4. You find a house that interests you in the paper and go to the real estate agency 5 times – but still haven’t seen the house.
5. You get hit by a water balloon on your walk to the gym as a part of the Carnaval celebration.
**By the way, I really am LOVING Cochabamba. These are just funny cross cultural differences that I've noticed.

I'm 9 months old!

January 30th marked Michaela’s 9 month birthday! We enjoy being her parents so much! She now has 2 teeth, is cruising, waving bye, talking a lot, and laughing even more. She loves the 4 dogs and 1 cat that share our homestay house with us. I think they will be her motivation to crawl. And I think she will be bilingual from her first words. She definitely is being exposed to a lot of Spanish! She is such a blessing from our Father. Having her has given me a greater insight into His great love for us!

Little People

Michaela has a fascination with little things. She loves little animals and most of all, other children. It has been so fun watching her and Jubilee Forbess play together and become friends. They slobber all over each others toys, grab each other, talk to each other, and lately try to play tag together (although Michaela can’t go anywhere even though she tries really hard). I can’t wait to see how their friendship will change in the years to come. I’m thankful for both Jubilee and Nathan, and pray that their friendships will be ones they cherish always – the way I cherish the friends I had on the mission field.

A Bolivian Baby Shower

The daughter of our host family is expecting a baby boy in March, which is exciting for me because that is the time my sister is due as well. It has been fun for me to watch her in the last stages of her pregnancy and imagine my sister going through those stages as well. We had a baby shower for Wendi, the daughter, last weekend. It is exciting being a part of family happenings like this – part of the advantage of being in a home stay program. We are able to participate in family events from the very beginning of our time here in Cochabamba – things like baby showers, weddings, baptisms etc. The baby shower was a lot of fun. It was a lot longer than in the States (from 4-8:30), but they had a sit down tea, games, and time to open gifts. We hope to participate in many more family events just like this, and learn more about the Cochabambino culture in the process.

Thank you God for Teammates!

We are so thankful to be here as part of a team. Sure there are little things about working together that can be difficult, but the variety of gifts and personalities on our team is a wonderful blessing from God. In the midst of a new language and a new culture, it is comforting to find fellowship in the presence of our teammates. Those of us with children are especially grateful for the love shown to our little ones. We greatly appreciate the "baby-sitting services" that everyone cheerfully contributes (although we try not to take advantage of them too much). Those of us with kids are now starting a "date night" rotation, so we can get out with our spouse a little bit. Thank you God for teammates!

A Day in the Life of the Marcums

I wake up about 6, in time to jump rope and shower. About 7:30, we eat breakfast with our host family, consisting usually of a variety of bread and coffee. Then I grab my bag and make the 20 minute walk to our language school. My classes last from 8:00-11:30, with a coffee break in the middle. Meanwhile, Josh gets Michaela up, fed, and plays with her until she’s ready for a nap. By the time she wakes up, it’s time for them to make the walk to Maryknoll (or catch a micro bus if they’re a little late). We trade Michaela off between classes. I check email, and then Michaela and I head home for lunch, an afternoon nap, and some study time. Josh’s classes last from 11:40-3:30. He eats his sack lunch during his break time, and checks email too. He walks home after class. We study some more in the afternoon, or possibly go shopping, or to the gym, or to run errands, or meet with our team. We eat dinner with our host family usually about 7:00, which usually consists of some kind of rice or potatoes with meat. Then it’s time for Michaela’s bath and bedtime! Josh and I steal some more reading time, or just time together, and then it’s time for bed until the next day.

Getting to Know Cochabamba

Much of the last week has been spent getting to know the city of Cochabamba a little better. We’ve been figuring out how to ride the bus systems and where the best grocery store is located. Thanks to the orientation at Maryknoll, this has been made a lot easier. They distributed a tour guide displaying the different bus routes, were able to recommend a gym and grocery store, and even hosted a city tour. We visited several historic churches, a Christian bookstore, the post office, and of course the statue of Jesus which is the landmark of Cochabamba. For lunch, they took us to a beautiful Catholic retreat center in Tiquipaya, about a 20 minute drive from the north part of the city. It was a beautiful and peaceful spot with spectacular gardens, a stream, cabins with fireplaces, a swimming pool, and a large meeting hall. It was a lovely escape from the business of the city. I think we will be frequent visitors there.

You Know You're in Cochabamba When....

1)You have to pay for toilet paper in a public bathroom.
2) You can’t flush your toilet paper.
3) You have to leave your purse in a locker before you can enter the grocery store.
4) When you drive, the “right of way” belongs to the first person in the intersection.
5) To find everything you need, you have to walk to 5 different stores within a 10 block radius.
6) You’re clothes are stiff from being line dried.
7) You’ve bought 5 different converters/ power strips because you keep blowing them.
8) Store clerks can’t understand why you would want a lined notebook when they have perfectly good notebooks with graph paper.
9) You’re nose is continually clogged from the dust and fumes, and the tissues smell like methanol.
10) You have to be sure to ask for your water “without gas!”

Meet our Homestay Family!

On Saturday, we moved from our hotel to our temporary home with Rolando and Elli Arcos. They have a pleasant home in a quiet neighborhood near our language school and we will be living with them for the next 6 weeks, learning the culture and practicing our Spanish. They have a beautiful garden filled with fruit trees and flowers, 4 dogs, 4 puppies, and a cat! Right now, we have a room and Michaela has a room (although this may change when their daughter who lives in Italy comes to stay for a few months) and we share the only bathroom in the house.

We have eaten a lot of wonderful Bolivian food since arriving here, including llama meat and papaya soup! Speaking some Spanish has been a great help as we have been able to converse about Bolivian culture. One thing we learned is that Bolivians have no qualms in decorating for Christmas! Our host family has the largest and most elaborate nativity scene that I have ever laid eyes on! It takes up half their living room, took two days to construct, and is complete with a waterfall and twinkling stars!

Welcome to Cochabamba!

Our first few days in Cochabamba were very relaxing. We spent the majority of our time recuperating from our miserable flight, and adjusting to the altitude of 9,000 feet. We stayed in the Hotel Regina, which had comfortable suites complete with kitchenette. We had a beautiful view of the city from the eighth floor.

It is very green here as it has been raining every day! But the temperature is pleasant and we are enjoying walking and being outside so much. Michaela is especially enjoying the fact that she doesn’t have to ride in a carseat anymore, but spends here time riding in her sling, her stroller, or on our laps in buses and taxis. The flowers and the mountains are magnificent, and I enjoyed watching the rain clouds drift down from the hills from our eighth story window. We also enjoyed sampling a variety of different restaurants in the area, including the Cochabambino version of the Olive Garden! MMMM!

Up, Up and Away!

We packed for what seemed like days, probably because that’s what happened. Michaela kept wondering why all of her toys kept disappearing, until even her bed and her feeding seat were packed inside a trunk. She helped (or not!) by hanging out in her Johnny Jump-Up, and even sometimes inside the suitcases themselves!

We left Brownwood on Monday morning and made the long drive to Dallas where we caught our flight to Miami. Unfortunately, Michaela started cutting another tooth the night before we left Brownwood. She had an extremely uncomfortable night, and a miserable day on the airplane. She threw up all over me on our first flight! Luckily, this missionary kid was prepared with extra changes of clothes for both of us!

In Miami, we met our coworkers/friends/mentors, Jim and Kathryn Holway, and their daughter Sarah in the airport. It was good visiting with them. And then we boarded our night flight for Cochabamba. Michaela slept in increments of 30 minutes no matter what we tried! Needless to say, we arrived very tired in Cochabamba the next morning. We collected 5 of our 7 bags (at least it was a majority!), and headed to our hotel (via the wrong hotel first)! When we finally arrived, that bed never felt better.

Send Off Sunday

Our send off Sunday on Jan. 9th was an encouraging and uplifting day, as well as a little sad. We were honored and surprised by a few very special guests that came to show their support. My best friend, Rachel Barnacle, and her mom, Laura Reppart, who were missionaries with my family in Kenya, were able to spend Friday and Saturday nights with us before the send off. Rachel and I had a lot of fun remembering “the good times” and they both helped immensely with the last minute packing of our suitcases.



Van and Mary Ann Harrold from Wichita, KS, came down to see us off as well. Their family has known Josh’s for years and they have been loyal friends and supporters of ours as well. We are so grateful for their friendship, for all the Pampered Chef goodies that Mary Ann has given to us, and for Van’s continual advice and work with our finances.



Our last surprise was the Lopez family, Jenny and their 3 kids, who came from Dallas for the morning service. Jenny and Saul knew Josh in Ecuador and it was wonderful having them there, representing in a way the love and support of Josh’s Ecuadorian family and friends.



Our send-off was complete with vows by us and the church body, prayer and the laying on of hands, and an excellent dinner of brisket along with a power point highlighting the history of our team and elements of our strategy. We are so thankful to have not only the congregations of Austin Ave, and Livonia behind us, but the love, prayers and financial support of so many of our friends and family. We could not be here without you, and we thank God for your lives!

Tearful Goodbyes

We have 3 days until we leave the country. Our last few days have been spent traveling back to Brownwood (a long grueling drive made worse by the fact that both of us got food poisoning and Michaela got her first tooth), wrapping up last minute business transactions, and packing and more packing. A big part of our packing was preparing our stuff for our container. The guys on the team worked hard getting the boxes for all five families to fit!

We said our tearful goodbyes to my family in Michigan. We're so thankful for the time we were able to spend with them. It was really difficult saying goodbye, but God has confirmed us in every step of our decision and so we are at peace in the midst of our sadness, excitement, and nervousness.

Now, we are waiting for our send off Sunday at Austin Ave. We are grateful to have such a supporting church, one that sends us off with all the love and prayers they can muster.

We ask that you remember us in your prayers too! We will do our best to keep up with email and our blog, although our access may be a little bit more sporadic.